Tuesday, January 6, 2015

Educational article | remedies | Unsuccess

          Each and every person sometimes feels harassment. When we try enough and can't get success, at that time we feel ourselves inferior. We think that we have bad luck or God is not supporting to us and we blame on others for our failure. We forget that every action in the world has its equal and opposite reaction and there must be a reason behind unsuccess. Most of times, it relaxes with the different situations of our life. As we sow, so we reap. We should take care of the situation to face bravely. We may describe the reasons according to situations differently.

1. Selection of dream- We get unsuccess in that situation where we can't identify our original power and ability to select a perfect dream means target. There were many great men who could  search and identify their power and ability at tiny age and had done many more for the world, like Swami Vivekananda and Bhagat Singh. For example, if anyone has a ability to be an artist and got admitted into an engineering college, he will not be a success engineer, but he might have a chance to lose his originality. So, man should identify his original qualities, perseverance to be successful.

2. Believe in fate- Most of people, believe in their fate only rather than their action and duties for which their attention towards duty decreases. We shouldn't think about the result of our actions. It is necessary to complete our task full attentively. If anybody will sit at home thinking about his fate, the day must come and God will give him success, he can never reach his destiny and fulfill his dream. The person who has faith in duty and never depends on fate only, he can climb the peak of success easily.

3. Lack of inspiration- Inspiration is the main sword of man to fight against unsuccess. Inspiration comes from the surrounding around us, from our teachers, colleagues, friends, parents, brothers, sisters, books, magazines and other sources. Inspiration encourages the person to do his duty perfectly and get charged with energy of active mind. Inspiration builds each and every step towards success concretely and completely. Man should go through life history of past success persons. Through it a person can check his performance and console the errors.

4. Lack of struggle mind- Another cause of unsuccess is that, man does not struggle up to the end of his capacity and ability, never wants to tolerate the pain of struggle, becomes confused and tries to go away from it. He doesn't want to face the obstacles. If man wants success without struggle, he should prepare himself to to be brave and dare to reach the destiny. The soldier in a battle field and a saint in meditation, both are in the same way to forget themselves to get the achievement bravely. They never go away from their aim to get success. Continuous practice makes the man to be perfect in reaching the goal.

5. Situation of confusion- Man can not make a decision while he tries to collect his action, thoughts and ways and trapped in a situation of confusion. His thoughts and actions struggle each other and creates confusion in his mind. For which the man can not able to develop his personality. Man should inspire himself to go forward towards his duties. His regular duties will take him to the point of success.

6. Negative thoughts- Negative thoughts is a main cause of unsuccess in life. Maximum people think that they can not do any thing, it is happening wrong with them and they they trapped themselves in depression, They start to underestimate their abilities, feel inferior themselves and can not evaluate their abilities.These negative thoughts leads them to a wrong decision in life.The man who has positive thoughts must achieve success in life.He should develop the the idea that he can do any things.

7. Life style- Sometime man makes mistakes to maintain his life style properly, like going to bed late and wake up from bed late. They forget their time schedule for which they can not perform their duties properly and perfectly. They destroy their knowledge of time and feel the shortage of time. So, we should do our daily routine and live our life style in such a way that we can do more work in a time schedule.

8. Selfish tendency- Most commonly, man wants to take everything and don't want to give anything. He always thinks of himself for which in time of his distress, no one come to cooperate him. At that time, man feels loneliness and lost his eagerness to do work with lack of cooperation. Man who thinks always 'I' instead of 'We', nobody comes forward to help him. So, a man who walks with a mask, can get success in every sphere of life.

9. Jealousy- Jealousy makes a man blind, although he has eyesight. He can't avail the mercy of God. He must face obstacles and hindrance in the path of success. Like the termite, make hollow to a log, jealousy nature make hollow to the brain of a man. Then the man is considered as a brainless animal. Without brain, man can't find a way or decide what to do.

10. Greedy nature- Most often, man loses the chance of success due to his greedy nature, because he wants more and more, for which he has to lose all at the end and realize. The desire of getting more makes the man lose the way to success. So, man shouldn't be greedy and satisfy himself with a minimum desire.

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